Relationship

Relationships fall and wither because eventually someone stops trying and it doesn’t feel the same. The first couple of months or even years it may be the best thing you ever wished for, but eventually someone loses feelings, gets too busy, or doesn’t even bother to try. You know what? Because they’re comfortable. The beginning is all about the chase. Can you keep up? If you can then you’ll get the hang of it and then you won’t want to try anymore. You aren’t afraid to lose them because they’re yours. Arguing leads to fighting and it just gets worse from there. It all flashes by so fast. So, cherish what you have.


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My girlfriends introduced me to this video which talked about the different stages in relationship. Basically, for failed relationships, you started off as strangers, and you end it off as strangers too. 

It's really scary just to think about it. Imagine all the efforts you put in, all the commitments. Especially giving your heart to someone only to know that they are so vulnerable. Then Audrey said this.....

I have such nice friends :') 

Friends who will ask me to cherish my boyfriend and treat him right. Friends who ask me to believe that we will be together forever. Friends who will speak for him, when they know i'm pissed with him because they know the amount of effort he put into our r/s. Friends who will tell me that he is the right guy to be with. Friends who will tell me that i'm lucky to have him. 

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