Maturity

I'm really bored now and i was just lying down on my bed thinking about random things when i suddenly thought of this incident whereby this girl (we're sort of related) talked shit about my family on Twitter. We follow each other on twitter and we have never ever quarrel before. This whole drama started because my dad and her dad had some issues a while back. In fact, my dad wasn't the only one who sort of told her dad off, there were a few others who quarrelled with her dad too. This goes to show who was the problem right? Anyw it was none of my business so i didn't bother but i know that the next day my mum talked to her dad properly and explained to him what was the problem and said she hoped that he will not take it to heart because whatever the rest said, they just want the best for him. I was there, i heard their conversation. He said ok and he will not take it to heart. I HEARD IT, LOUD AND CLEAR. So i thought let bygones be bygones.

& suddenly the next day, his daughter started saying something like "Only loser will compare." "Bastards and sluts"..... and something like "don't compare with my family when your family has nothing to compare." I didn't take it to heart cos i was thinking it might be someone else & who the fuck was comparing with them. Then holy shit, the next day this happened again and one particular tweet made me confirm that she was referring to my family. I talked to Bryan about it, like what happened and whatever and he too, think she was referring to us. How immature? This whole thing was between the 2 adults so why she dragged my whole family into this?! In the first place, i really don't know what her dad told her. He might have twisted and turned the story. I'm sure he made it sound like he was the victim. Frankly speaking, i couldn't stand her dad too. Not to be rude or what, sometimes i can't stand my family, bf, friends etc too. That doesn't mean i hate them or whatever right? I always get annoyed with Bryan and sometimes i just have to tell him off BUT i love him and i scolded him because i think it's for the better of him. Same theory applies here.

Her dad....lets just say not many can get along well with him. I was really annoyed with him at this particular point (i always complained to Bryan about him) but that's about it. I don't call him names and say his whole family so obviously i expected the same thing in return. I may not agree with his actions, i may not get along well with him but i don't start saying shit about him or his family because whatever he did has nothing to do with his family right? So she may not be happy with my dad and what he said but DO NOT bring my family into this. I told Bryan that i'm going to confront her if she continues tweeting this because it's really uncomfortable reading this kind of tweets especially when they are scolding you and your family. Well, she stopped so i didn't do anything about it. I don't hate her or her family despite all this even though i was quite annoyed and felt that she was really immature. & frankly speaking, i felt uncomfortable because i think this will jeopardize the r/s between both families and this is the last thing i want...... Sigh but if people like them don't give a damn, then i won't give a damn too. I just hope sometimes people can handle problems maturely.

So, the moral of the story is, don't only listen to one side of the story and assume. If you're not there to witness everything then it's none of your business. Whatever you hear from others are always 50% true, 50% false. So don't be stupid and just blindly listen because it is human's nature to twig the story to be in their favor.

Anyw this happened a while back alrd and no one say anything now (i think i'm a pushover sometimes -_-) but i just thought about it and it makes me feel angry again so i need an outlet to let it out. The weird thing is, she's still following me on Twitter. Ok whatever. Just thinking if you guys agree with what i said.

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