Men vs women

I saw this quote on 9gag but it didn't really capture my attention. Then, my secondary sch teacher (yes, he is one of a kind of teacher.) posted this on his facebook and it got me thinking.

If a man sleeps around he is a stud. If a woman sleeps around she's a slut. Is this unfair? No.

In order for a man to engage in sexual relations with multiple women over a short period of time, he needs to be smart, charming and wealthy even to begin with.

In order for a woman to engage in sexual relations with multiple men over a short period of times, she needs to be... Well... She just needs to be there actually.

For a woman to engage in sexual relations with multiple men, she needs to be smart, charming and wealthy as well. Actually for both gender, just being wealthy is enough. In this kind of society, i feel that many people placed importance in money. Of course money is important. People are willing to sacrifice, back stab, betray themselves just for money. Who says in order for a man to engage in sexual relations with multiple women, he needs to be smart, charming and wealthy? No. No. Basically all he need is money - same as a woman.

Is it unfair for a woman to be labelled as a slut while the man who is doing the same thing, is the stud? Obviously it is unfair but i feel that it's the way we were brought up. We were taught that a lady should behave like one. They should sit properly, never wear short shorts or mini skirts, should not dressed skimpily and reveal too much of their skin etc. They have to talk softly and laugh like a lady because talking loudly will make them tomboyish and it's like a man's thing.

I say, fuck that. Fuck all this. Oh ya, they can't speak vulgarities as well. Anyw i don' think a lady should dressed skimpily too, it'll sent out the wrong message.

A lady should just stay at home and do the dishes and serve the men because they worked hard to support the family. We, are known as the weaker and more useless ones. What do we have? The men are stronger than us, they are (known as) more capable and more knowledgeable. Maybe this is why people think that a woman who fucks around is a slut because according to the society, only the men are allowed to do this since they are more "superior"

Really? Seriously? To be honest, sometimes i refer those women who sleep around as a slut too. However, it's not because they are women. I just don't understand why must people sleep around? It gives you satisfaction? Are you that insecure? You think you cool? 

 Real men don't love a million different women, they love one woman a million different ways

It may be cool when you are still young but when you grow older and look back and what you did, you think you still feel cool? Everyone around you is committed and has a long and loving relationship while you? Continue sleeping around and go back to your pathetic self in the middle of the night #foreveralone. You don't know what is love, you will never understand. Maybe someday you will meet this woman that you really like but you're bound to make her feel insecure because of your wrongdoings and this will result in endless quarrels.

Don't cry when it's gone because nobody will pity you. You totally brought it upon yourself. 

The bottom line of this post is, a committed relationship is still better than flings. Really, just think about it.